MODELmumma

Finally!

2012-01-27T21:18:00.000+11:00

Welcome to the world.

8lbs 9 oz.
54cm long.

Am quite smitten with the little man.

Creating a Maternity Wardrobe

2012-01-18T21:14:00.001+11:00

It's my third time being pregnant.... I'm ready to pop any day but wanted to share what I've learnt along the way.

I still want to maintain my style but also be comfortable in the heat (this is my second summer pregnancy) and because I have two little ones at home to look after I also need to dress appropriately.

First time round your body takes AGES to stretch and show signs of a belly bump so you really aren't breaking out the maternity clothes til much later. (or at all if you're lucky!)

Once you're expecting for the second and subsequent pregnancies, you're reaching for those stretchy waistbands faster than you can say "honey pass the pickles!"

Blah blah, pregnancy brain.

Here are some general tips that I've learnt along the way and am sharing, in case you're keen!

Pack away the clothes that don't fit your tummy
Some items will still fit for the first and second trimester so keep them in your closet until they don't, then pack away. That way you won't get annoyed and frustrated about what to wear when the only things you see are the items you can't wear for the next 9+ months. (Out of sight, out of mind!) It's going to make it easier on yourself to get dressed every day too.

Borrow clothes
It's like going shopping but without money. Last pregnancy my friend was clearing out her cupboard and let me borrow some clothes before she passed them on. She is a couple sizes bigger than me but because I was pregnant, a few of her tops, skirts and dresses worked. This pregnancy my SIL has lent me her maternity clothes. You don't have to wear the borrowed clothes but it's always nice to have more options.

Try to avoid buying maternity (or be smart about your purchases)
Unless you've found it at the op shop, the better maternity brands in Australia are limited and fairly pricey. I can't justify the price when a) I'm not wearing it for that long b) they generally aren't my style and c) they don't fit well.

My issue is that I have problems finding clothes that fit when I'm not pregnant... maternity clothes are the same. I prefer to try and be creative and smart with the clothes I have (or shop at thrift stores) than pay for items that will not be regular staples in my closet for years to come. I also have a budget so that plays a major factor.

If you do buy maternity, make sure they are wardrobe staples that you're going to be getting a lot of use from during your pregnancy. Buy it on sale. And consider if it could be worn after the pregnancy to become part of your 'regular' wardrobe.

Look for pregnancy friendly styles & fabrics when shopping
Whether you visit thrift stores or regular clothing stores, look for styles that work for your growing body. Fold down and elastic waistbands, empire line dresses and skirts, wrap tops and dresses, long tops or tunics, loose flowy tops that can be belted to define your belly, cardigans, and all fabrics that stretch!

You might be hunting for a while but they are out there. If in doubt, go try it on. At least you'll know. The great thing is that these items will be able to be worn post-pregnancy. The bottom line is there are alternatives if you choose not to buy maternity!

** Some like to buy clothing a few sizes up. I personally chose not to because they generally won't fit when I'm (hopefully) back to my pre-pregnancy weight. Hence I kinda think it is a waste, but each to their own!

Use layers
No one needs to know that your pants aren't buttoned up and an elastic band is holding it together. Layer a long tank top or a bellyband over. Top a bit short? Again, long tank top or belly band for the extra coverage. Pop on a cardi and don't bother buttoning it up. Or add a jacket.
Your tunic or dress getting a bit short with the growing belly? Layer another light skirt or slip underneath, or add some leggings. Layering is perfect for winter pregnancies!

Alter or sew it yourself
If you've got the time, motivation, experience or seamstress friend close by, hunt for jeans, pants, skirts or dresses you were about to throw out or search the thrift store and alter them for maternity. There are lots of tutorials on how to create stretchy waistbands. Maxi dresses are in and are perfect for maternity. Find cheap fabrics or look in your stash - you don't need to spend a fortune, it's just to give you an extra option during your pregnancy. By all means, throw it out after you've reached your pre-preggers weight!

Get into some accessories
These are instant pick me ups and if you want them to, can distract from the large belly. Big or dangly earrings, interesting necklaces and bracelets, hats, scarves (on your head, hat, neck, tied above your belly) ... they are cheap to buy, you can wear them no matter what size you are and it's nice to have something pretty on!

***

So tell me,
what are YOUR tips for maternity dressing?
Love to hear them.

39 weeks

2012-01-16T19:13:00.001+11:00

I get a lot of comments about how I'm "all baby" and how I look like I've just stuck a basketball under my clothes... or hubby even commented on how you see my belly coming through the door first... and then me. Hmmm.
When I took this photo I did not think I was THAT big. But I suppose when I'm about to pop, that is how you'll end up looking.

39 WEEKS!

I would love to tell you that this third pregnancy has been easier than the rest. In some ways it has because I knew what to expect, but I also have a 3 and not even 2 year old at home to look after which makes it tiring. It is definitely a juggling act .... and in some ways you must slow down.

I've tried to stay fit and eat as healthy as possible... but the past month I've suffered from pelvic joint pain, which has meant I couldn't exercise but I kept on snacking on Christmas treats and chocolate a fair bit. Guilty.

It is summer here and apart from the day I took this photo, I have been living in stretchy waistband skirts and dresses. And avoiding fashion blogs because when you don't have a waist, it's kinda pointless.

Anyway, this is all totally random.

Maybe not as random as the check-out lady who served me and the girls today, asking if I'd be "disappointed if it was a boy." Uhhh....?

crazy nesting

2012-01-15T13:33:00.000+11:00

Hello, I'm still in one piece btw. Will hopefully post a photo to show you my basketball of a belly soon!

I wanted to share the throw quilt I just made for my brother in law and his wife... it was a wedding present. They got married two years ago. I'm ashamed to say it has taken me this long to make it for them. And also required the imminent birth of my third born to motivate me. Did I mention that when they got married I was 7 months pregnant with my second child? Yep, disgraceful.

I LOVE how it turned out. The teal side is my absolute favourite and I didn't want to part with it.

The fabrics are a mix of new quilting and op shop fabric finds.

I didn't use a pattern. I just went to my stash and played around with some choices until I was happy with the colour combinations. Then cut them to the width I wanted and played with the pieces again till I was happy with how it looked. On the back is some hand embroidery with their names and wedding date.

All up it took me almost four nights to complete. I was attempting to see if I could make the quilt before baby arrives... and I sure did..... and now I'm still waiting....

It's 2012 ...

2012-01-01T21:19:00.000+11:00

Bit slack as I was suppose to post this in 2011, and lookee here, it's the first day of 2012 already!

Hope you all had a wonderful Christmas .... it has been a hot one here. On Christmas Eve we took the girls to the beach... wore them (and me) out, but they loved it.

On Christmas Day we had the usual long, late lunch outside under the marquee at my in-laws and the kids wore out their uncles. heh heh.

I only have a few more weeks left of this pregnancy, can't believe how fast it's flown by and now it's time to pack the ol' hospital bag and get the house in order!

BEST WISHES FOR 2012!

35 and counting....

2011-12-18T20:15:00.000+11:00

It's been a long while since I've done an outfit post.... with the weather warming up, my belly getting bigger, finding it hard to get a decent nights' sleep, PLUS two toddlers to look after, I'm kinda exhausted!

So here I am in all my 35 week glory! (No amount of make up can hide the lack of sleep.)
I got a much needed haircut yesterday with a big chunk chopped off. How much better do I feel now!

This pregnancy seems to be flying.... or else we've had a much busier year than normal.

Everything is going well though.
I've kept up with walking on the treadmill every other day.
We've agreed on names (both boy and girl since we didn't find out what we're having) and now I need to start packing my hospital bag.

And thinking about what can I wear for Christmas Day?!!

Handmade Christmas

2011-12-14T14:34:00.000+11:00

I've wanted to make some nice Christmas stockings for my two girls and last week decided to take the plunge and cut up one of my old lambswool jumpers (aka sweater) as it was the perfect dark burgundy colour... lovely for Christmas!

They aren't exactly the same by any means, but still similar. Kinda like my girls.

I used some soft flannel to line them (from my stash that I bought from the op shop) and just traced an old stocking we had on hand to get the shape. You can find a ton of stocking templates on the web too if you didn't have a stocking already.

All it needs now is their name on the cuff and some embroidery (snowflakes would be pretty.)

10 ways...to help a new mum

2011-12-12T16:11:00.000+11:00

Found this list via Giverslog and had to share... doesn't matter if it's your first or your third *hint hint* - a new mumma will always appreciate any help!

I'll be back soon with some pics of my 34 week belly!!

10 WAYS TO HELP A NEW MUM

1. Buy us toilet paper, milk and beautiful whole grain bread.

2. Buy us a new garbage can with a swing top lid and 6 pairs of black cotton underpants (women’s size____).

3. Make us a big supper salad with feta cheese, black Kalamata olives, toasted almonds, organic green crispy things and a nice homemade dressing on the side. Drop it off and leave right away. Or, buy us frozen lasagna, garlic bread, a bag of salad, a big jug of juice, and maybe some cookies to have for dessert. Drop it off and leave right away.

4. Come over about 2 in the afternoon, hold the baby while I have a hot shower, put me to bed with the baby and then fold all the piles of laundry that have been dumped on the couch, beds or in the room corners. If there’s no laundry to fold yet, do some.

5. Come over at l0 a.m., make me eggs, toast and a 1/2 grapefruit. Clean my fridge and throw out everything you are in doubt about. Don’t ask me about anything; just use your best judgment.

6. Put a sign on my door saying “Dear Friends and Family, Mom and baby need extra rest right now. Please come back in 7 days but phone first. All donations of casserole dinners would be most welcome. Thank you for caring about this family.”

7. Come over in your work clothes and vacuum and dust my house and then leave quietly. It’s tiring for me to chat and have tea with visitors but it will renew my soul to get some rest knowing I will wake up to clean, organized space.

8. Take my older kids for a really fun-filled afternoon to a park, zoo or Science World and feed them healthy food.

9. Come over and give my husband a two hour break so he can go to a coffee shop, pub, hockey rink or some other r & r that will delight him. Fold more laundry.

10. Make me a giant pot of vegetable soup and clean the kitchen completely afterwards. Take a big garbage bag and empty every trash basket in the house and reline with fresh bags.

goodbye holiday!

2011-12-04T15:26:00.000+11:00

So I've been home for about 6 weeks now... but here are a couple more holiday pics before I start to motivate myself again to take current outfit pics. It's always hard to get back into the swing of things...

Buckingham Palace

Cool Britannia, West End.

Primrose Hill, London.

Change Rooms

2011-11-16T15:18:00.000+11:00

Change room at Boden, in London

Boden, London

Banana Republic, Bath UK

MANGO, London.

I like a good change room.
I like it when there is room enough to change!

I like it when the men's change room's have comfy leather couches to sit on as well.

PS: Can't believe I didn't even take a photo of the change room at Anthropologie! It was HUGE.

fancy a Bath?

2011-11-08T20:51:00.000+11:00

Would've been fairly nice to soak in the warm waters of the Roman Baths, in Bath, UK ....

but drink the fishy smelling, warm, sulphuric water ?

I DON'T THINK SO!!!

A visit to Anthropologie

2011-11-02T16:25:00.000+11:00

While in London recently, on the top of my "must see stores" list was a visit to Anthropologie in Regent Street. It's one of those websites that constantly inspires you with beautiful styling, gorgeous items and a desire to dress with more femininity.

As soon as you walk through the door you're surrounded by a lovely fragrance (possibly one to enhance your spending, haha) and your eyes take in lovely displays as you wander through three floors of goodness.

Street view

Anthropologie Sale? yes please!

Beautifully displayed homewares

Awesome wall display

more kitchen-y goodness

loved the grouped lampshades at the counter

more upstairs? joy!

swoon

While in store they were accepting resumes for Christmas staff.... oh how nice would that be?

But I think what I enjoyed was to actually see the store I had been ~~drooling.~~ ~~obsessed with.~~ ~~stalking~~ browsing online for a while.

Won't ever get back there for a very long time so perhaps I need to put in an online request to Santa?
*wink*

'ello 'ello

2011-10-28T20:13:00.000+11:00

Receiving a very important phone call in Swanage, Dorset, UK.

Or else I was just taking comfort that my red boots were not the only red things on the street.

Blimey!

2011-10-24T13:53:00.000+11:00

It's been over a month . . . .

I've been away. . .

breezy like a sunday arvo {yeah yeah}

2011-09-22T21:36:00.000+10:00

OUTFIT DETAILS:

Thrifted tunic top.

Elastic waist skirt.

Belt above the tummy.

Photos taken a couple weeks back now. I'm definitely at the uncomfortable belly stage where I need a pillow to support my tummy when I sleep. Oh and lots of effort and grunting to get off the couch.

Busy week here.

New camera, new suitcase, new phone and organising for a holiday.

Hubby entered a competition and we won... family portraits at some "glamour"** studio where they beautify, dress and pose you within an inch of your lives in a room with bright lights and all that jazz.... heh heh.... totally NOT what we'd go out and do for ourselves but I think it might be ridiculously fun! (or else just ridiculous... will keep ya posted if we go through with it.)

Oh and West Coast Eagles (my team!) play the Geelong Cats (hubby's team!) this weekend for a place in the AFL Grand Final.... should be an interesting one here ....

be back soon xo

** aka "Airbrushed"

short lived sewing

2011-09-15T13:24:00.000+10:00

I had a massive burst of energy a few weeks back.... now it's kinda died.... not sure why as I'm still in my second trimester!

I made a pair of Kid Shorts for a nephew's birthday in August.

Sewing clothes for a 3 year old is perfect as not much fabric is required. The corduroy was from my stash.

I thought the finished shorts looked too 'neat & prissy' for my nephew so added the fish bone motif on the leg by using zig-zag stitch over and over and hand stitching the red 'X' for the eye. Love how it turned out.

My daughter gets to test out the boy shorts.

I love all the things Dana from MADE sews and found the tutorial to be so easy to follow, especially as there are step by step photos.

I attempted to make knot shorts for my daughter but the pregnancy brain got the better of me - for now! Making your own pattern to begin with and minimal photos in the instructions didn't help my situation either. They were turning out so cute too.

At least there are a couple more months before the summer hits to tackle them again!

Anyone have simple summer clothing tutorials they've tried, tested and love?

escaping

2011-09-12T10:33:00.001+10:00

Most Saturday mornings I try to sneak out on my own for a couple hours. Usually I head to the op shops so I can have a more thorough look or occasionally do the groceries.

Most times I feel a bit awkward wearing previously thrifted finds back to the same op shops. I know no one will even notice but it always feels a bit .... silly?

Didn't worry about that this time though.... maybe it's this pregnancy state of mind where you're just not bothered!

OUTFIT DETAILS:

Thrifted jacket.
Borrowed maternity 3/4 sleeve top.
Thrifted skirt (with stretchy waistband but not specifically maternity).
Self made necklace.

Do you have a regular "me time" schedule and what do you get up to?

trolley pushing

2011-09-07T13:33:00.001+10:00

OUTFIT DETAILS:
Thrifted jacket.
3/4 sleeve top. (see here for how I wore it pre-pregnancy)
Borrowed maternity jeans.
Fabric bow pin.

I don't know about any of you but when you're halfway through a pregnancy, with a full trolley of groceries that has a 12kg child sitting inside AND a 3 yr old walking beside you, you WANT to be comfortable.

Did I mention that bending down to GET the groceries out of the trolley and onto the conveyor belt is uncomfortable too? No. Well, it is. Bubba doesn't like to be squished much.

Do you like the fabric pin? Will you like it as much as me when I tell you I paid 86 CENTS for it? I know! What a steal. (The original price was over $10!)

This is my secret. If you buy anything from ASOS, it's always worth checking out the clearance accessories to add to your cart before you pay because:
a) you aren't paying for postage anyway,
b) you get bargains and
c) accessories jazz up a plain casual outfit, even if the fabric bow is ridiculously long and you almost dangle it into a pooey nappy that you're changing.

Glamour, it's the life I lead.

chicken tonight?

2011-09-05T20:33:00.000+10:00

Looking for something new for dinner this week?

Chicken?

Two meals for you to try which we found to be DELISH.

Chicken Noodles:

Recipe from here.

I made a few substitutions/adjustments:

doubled the recipe to feed a family of four. (yes my 18 month old and 3 yr old ate this. Just cut up the noodles.)
dry egg noodles instead of fresh.
added leftover bean curd.
used rice wine vinegar instead of Shaoxing wine. (not sure if it made any difference.)
I didn't clean the pan like stated. Rebel.

Chicken Piccata:
Recipe from here.

My substitutions / adjustments:

sea salt instead of kosher.
omitted the white wine as had none (honestly come on!) but replaced with 1 cup extra of chicken stock.
replaced the 3/4 cup of cream with full cream milk.
only used 1 lemon instead of two which makes for a more subtle lemon flavour which I prefer.
added flour to the sauce to help it thicken.
steamed some broccoli cause we gotta have veggies!

ENJOY!

transform with fabric dye

2011-09-05T07:25:00.003+10:00

Take one blah dress bought on sale years ago but never wore as you don't like the colours.

Mix a packet of RIT dye of choice in the sink with boiling water and salt. Add your dampened dress and stir good and regularly! Gloves are handy if you prefer not to have coloured fingers.

Read the box for more specific instructions!!

Rinse thoroughly until the water runs clear. Give it a wash and love the new lease on life!

Seen here in the winter. (alright, technically it was the first week of Spring.)

And in the summer!

See how I overdyed a boring brown skirt and a plain pair of grey jeans to something fab!

Anyone else been transforming with fabric dye lately?

I have a bucket full of boring white clothes to dye next, just deciding on colours!

ultrasound day

2011-09-04T20:00:00.004+10:00

All four of us went along for baby #3's first ultrasound. It definitely makes the pregnancy "real" when you see the baby on the screen and hear its heartbeat. Very exciting.
3 yr old loved it. But was sad that her new bubba didn't wave to her. ha ha!

I don't look too pleased here... I think I was just hungry!

OUTFIT DETAILS:
Thrifted fake wrap top.
Thrifted skirt. Worn over the belly.
Tights worn under the belly.

20 weeks

See this skirt pre-pregnancy here and here.

maybe next time, Yoga

2011-09-03T15:42:00.000+10:00

First of all, THANK YOU for the beautiful comments in regards to my news! It's so awesome to have such encouraging & supportive readers!

I am so excited to share my journey with you, and I hope you'll enjoy it too.

I did not feel that way during the first trimester though. I had no idea how I was going to blog about fashion while pregnant, with two small children at home. But hey, that phase passed and I feel great again and I'm determined to show you that being pregnant does not mean you have to sacrifice your style or your budget!

I am going to post outfits that now state whether something I'm wearing is maternity, non-maternity or even thrifted so you can see how I'm doing it for some inspiration for your own pregnancies! (or to just have a nosey if you're so inclined.)

And thanks to Posie for this post. Seriously flattered. If you've found me through her, welcome!

Sooooo....
here I'll have a ~~little~~ long vent about an experience I had less than two months ago.

Yoga.

Never tried it before but I have a few friends who swear by it, especially during pregnancy. This being my third pregnancy I really wanted to get some time for myself and keep fit. So I decided to try it.

At my local community health centre I found they had a class starting and at the right time to suit me. (cheap too!)
I checked with the course coordinator that I could attend because I was 14 weeks pregnant at the time and she confirmed it would be fine.

The yoga teacher is awesome she told me, you just won't be able to do some of the positions but just listen to your body and you'll love it.

The evening of the first class for the Term came round and I was seriously excited about going. I am not a gym person. I am not an active person. I was going on my own but I was keen.

The yoga teacher was late. I was the first person to arrive. I set up a mat in the corner and waited. She showed up with her daughter and after letting her set up I approached and introduced myself.

***
Hi I'm Jacinta. I haven't done yoga before but I'm pretty excited. I'm letting you know I'm 14 weeks pregnant too but I've heard that it's really great... I've had a few recommendations to try it!

Who recommended you?!! Your DOCTOR?!?

Uhhh, no, a few friends who've done it during their pregnancy.

Hmph. Well, you just can't push yourself too far and you have to listen to your body.

***

Then I go back and stand awkwardly in the corner while the yoga instructor storms out the door to see if anyone is coming for the class. I am totally bewildered as to her reaction and am grateful no one else was there to see how shocked I was.

But then the yoga teacher starts talking to the course coordinator who is working in the corridor. The door is open and I can hear her clearly:

No one is coming, they would be here by now. I don't think it is worth running the class tonight for one person. She's never done yoga before and she's pregnant.

The coordinator made some comments in my defence, something about how eager I was and how she told me already not to push myself.

But in the end the yoga teacher comes back in to say that there is no class tonight, she hopes it didn't stuff up my evening (HA!) and after informing her that I was looking forward to the class, especially as it gave me a break from my two other children, she looked surprised that I was already a mother.

Have I gone back?

Nope.

I found her very rude but unfortunately I have not had the opportunity to tell the coordinator about my experience. I'm letting it go, for now.

Am I exercising?

Yes.
Hubby borrowed a treadmill from work and I walk on it for 20mins almost every day.
It's free and I can do it any time.

I'm sure we've all had negative experiences while pregnant, so spill!

NEWS!

2011-08-31T11:47:00.000+10:00

sunshine!

2011-08-27T13:55:00.001+10:00

I hope you are enjoying your weekend! The sun is shining here, it feels like Spring.

I finally got a haircut and eyebrow wax this morning (not pictured here, this photo was from a few days ago) and gosh it's nice to have a bit of pampering.

What are you up to this weekend?

And make sure you come back next week for some news.

be an individual

2011-08-25T13:20:00.000+10:00

Yes totally, when it comes to dressing....
AND nachos. (which by the way is hard to make to look attractive!)

I love nachos. But I don't like jalapenos on mine. Hubby does. Some like beans, some don't.
I know, talk about fussy.

I was planning on individual nachos for my daughter's party but we had so much food we didn't need them. We ended up having them later that week.

Take aluminium foil (I used about a 30cm piece) and build up little walls around the sides.
Pile on the chips and grated cheese. Stick on a tray in the oven til the cheese melts.
Have the salsa, beans, jalapenos, sour cream, guacamole etc in bowls at the table and everyone puts their own on top.

Mmmmm mmmmm.

Best part: less dishes to wash and everyone's happy.

Hhhhhhh-aaaaaaaat!

2011-08-24T21:39:00.000+10:00

My 18 month old's language has exploded in the past month or so, with one of her favourites being 'hat', but pronounced in a long drawn out way. Too cute.

When I picked up a hat from the op shop this week, you can imagine who spied it and wanted to tell me what it was... for the next 10 mins.... yes dear.

Me: How much is the hat? It didn't have a price.

Op shop lady: Hmm.... because it's a Billabong brand..... $2.50.

Me: Cool. {HA! is that all??!! YES PLEASE I'LL TAKE IT!}

We're enjoying a beautiful week of sun and I decided it's time for me to wear a hat since I make my girls put theirs on outside.

I need to fight wrinkles too.

Oh yeah and set a good example.

Friday night: late night shopping

2011-08-21T15:52:00.000+10:00

I seem to have a habit of starting something ~~weird,~~ ~~crazy~~ interesting on Friday nights. (Maybe we need to start sharing ideas?)

My latest started innocently enough, just browsing through the clearance section of ASOS and ending up loving these Mango skirts too much that I had to have them. I was up til midnight debating if I should order them or let them go.

They're now on their way to my SIL in the UK.

Ohhhhhh!

Ahhhhhh!

I really love the style of Mango but they don't ship to Australia. BOOO!

Have you ever loved something you saw online so much that you went to great lengths to get it?

a pick me up

2011-08-19T11:09:00.000+10:00

What I love about op shopping (aka thrifting) is the variety of items you find.
No fashion trend is being dictated or shoved down your throat with blaring music and you can actually make up your own mind. Honestly, who cares if you aren't clothed head to toe in the latest designs - dress for yourself!!

The other thing I love are the moments when you are on your way out of the store and spy something sitting right there, just waiting for you. The right size, and the right price.

This purple tunic/dress and leather bag were those such items recently. Both on separate trips and when I least expected it.

Tunic dress: $4
Leather bag: $5

simple

2011-08-18T20:15:00.000+10:00

I'm the mother to girls so when I need a present for a boy, I usually get stuck.
Plus everyone seems to have everything these days...

So for a friend's son's birthday I had no clue but I think books are always a great option. Hubby and I both still have books from our childhood which we've passed on to our girls and they love to come and tell us how this book or that book is Dadda's or Mumma's and have us read it to them.

birthday book and pirate flag

As a former primary school teacher, I know some boys don't like to read. I had to pick a story that would (hopefully) interest him.... arrrrrr, pirates!

We love Pamela Allen in our house. She's a fantastic Australian children's author.

I made the pirate flag out of black and white felt, a large bamboo skewer (cut the point off) and found a simple skull and cross bone template from the net.
You could go all out and do a whole pirate costume! (or an eyepatch, hook, hat, bag of gold coins etc)

birthday card

With the card, I used a blank one, opened it up and freehand drew a treasure map, copying from one I found online. It would look awesome if you actually did make a treasure map as the birthday card!

So what other ideas can you give me for presents for boys?
What's some great present ideas you've received or gave?

Friday night fries & ice cream

2011-08-15T13:23:00.000+10:00

With a three and one year old, hubby and I don't get out too much. Not that I'm complaining as I'm more of a home-body. Besides, it's nice after a busy week to just hang out together and do something or even nothing together.

A couple weeks ago, hubby and I decided to try out two new recipes.

I made mint ice cream. Which ended up being a lot of work as you needed to make the custard first. Too much straining and heating for my liking but it was tasty. Fresh mint? Yes please!

(Anyone have a good ice cream recipe? I use a Kitchen Aid ice cream maker attachment.)

Meanwhile, Hubby attempted to create "Perfect Thin and Crispy French Fries" after I emailed him the recipe I had found the week before.

I'm not a huge fan of that place with the 'golden arches' but when I was preggers with my eldest, I had the biggest craving for salty fries. We would take drive through detours on the way home from church on Sunday mornings so I could get my fix ... usually from Hungry Jacks mind you. Honestly, you wouldn't believe how devastated I would be if they weren't salty enough.

Enough said.
I won't mention how I even got treated to a packet of hot fries in bed after hubby would return late after a football function... mmmmm.

Needless to say, we decided to recreate it at home.

Hubby cuts them potatoes to french - fry - precision.

The process basically requires you to boil the potatoes with white vinegar added to the water, which we found enhances the salty flavour.
Then fry the fries for 50 seconds in peanut oil. Freeze them overnight and fry them again to create the perfect thin and crispy fries!

After being boiled in the vinegar water.

Slow going when you don't have a deep fryer.
Saucepan and spaghetti strainer were our alternative which made for a very tedious process.
It had to be a two person job with me putting the fries into the pan in batches and timing
while Hubby did the frying and checked the temperature.

First frying.
Hey hey, these look just like the take away fries!

We froze the fries overnight and on the Saturday Hubby cooked them for lunch.
Ugh... that was the weekend I was sick as a dog, and so he had to fry them on his own which meant slightly overcooked fries. And he went a bit gung-ho with the salt so they were extremely salty, crispy fries.

The Verdict:

After you factor in the cost of the oil (for us it used about $8 worth of oil!!), the amount of fat from the deep frying and the time and effort put in for about two medium packets of fries, it just IS NOT WORTH IT.

Hey, it was fun to try but next time?
We'll just go drive through.

MM's Mumma's Curry Puff recipe

2011-08-11T20:39:00.000+10:00

For my daughter's birthday I made a lot of the food from recipes I hadn't tried before.

Except these curry puffs.
I knew they work as they've been making an appearance at family gatherings for as long as I can remember.
Isn't it funny as certain people have a particular dish they are always asked to make for parties?
These were mum's.

I phoned her the week of the party for the recipe and made them in advance.
Which you can do by freezing them before cooking. Take them out the night before to defrost and cook as normal.

CURRY PUFFS

What you need:

1 tablespoon curry powder mixed into 1/2 cup water. (Adjust to personal taste, I put in 2 Tbsp.)
1 chopped onion
500g beef mince
3 large potatoes - cut into small cubes
1 packet puff pastry
Vegetable oil
Salt to season
Egg wash

Fry the onion in the oil, then add mince until brown. (Make sure all the mince is broken into small pieces.)
Add the potatoes and curry powder mixture. Stir well.
Cover and cook for 1/2 hr or until potatoes are cooked. Stir occasionally. (Add more water if too dry and sticking to the pan.)
Remove from heat, add salt and leave to cool.
With a sheet of puff pastry, (they come in a square shape) you'll need to cut it into 8 small squares. To do this cut a line straight down the middle from top to bottom, then again across the middle from left to right. (making a cross shape and creating four squares). Now split each of the four squares down the middle to make 8 squares.
Place a spoonful of the mixture onto the lower half of a square, so you are able to fold the top half of the puff pastry over without the mixture spilling out.
Using a fork, prick along the three open sides to secure.
(If you want to freeze them then stop here! Store in an airtight container between the plastic sheets that come with the puff pastry.)
Brush with the egg wash.
In a preheated 180C degree oven, cook until golden brown.
Enjoy but careful as they stay HOT for ages!

I hope you enjoy these as much as we do and let me know if you try them!

down and out

2011-08-08T16:47:00.001+10:00

Last week the sun was out, it kinda felt like Spring was sneaking in early. It was nice to get out in the sunshine... even for just a couple days.... until BAM, hit by a cold and out hard over the weekend. The second child and I are still miserable and icky but what can ya do?

So I'm dedicating the day to hankies, tissues, cold & flu tablets and nap times. And of course comfy ugg boots, soft warm cardis and plenty of water.

Catch ya soon with my curry puff recipe and other fascinating tidbits ...
EDIT: Curry Puff recipe here!!

birthday shenanigans

2011-08-03T22:22:00.001+10:00

We celebrated our eldest daughter's birthday last week so I've been busy. (understatement of the YEAR.)

I made her a numbered sequin top to wear on the day. Inspired from this post, but I used sequin on a spool (you know, the sequin threaded trim stuff) as I didn't want to fiddle around with individual sequins. I freehand drew the "3" on the top and used a heat gun to glue the sequin trim down. I don't expect them to stay on for long but I have been washing it inside out.

Silly birthday face! I love how even after 3 yrs my baby is still a baldy.
No hairdresser has ever touched her locks. I don't expect any to for another three.

Now on to the par-tay! We invited immediate family for a late arvo tea/dinner. And boy was it! We are still eating leftovers, three days later.

Readers, this is what homemade tahini looks like for your hommus dip. Quick, easy and for way less than store bought. Find the recipe here.

Birthday cake. Fresh cream and berries in between two buttercream rounds. Dusted with icing sugar.

Table setting. Wattle from the garden.

Chickpea & Olive dip found here.
Served with vege sticks, pita crisps and homemade crackers.

Drinks table.
Of course beer is in the fridge. (and the wine!)

Used mum's famous Curry Puff recipe. Hot stuff.

Food eaten but still plenty.

I made up a Menu that hung above the drinks table. Afterwards I saw the empty picture frame which would have worked so much better. Oh well.

I did not even bother to cook the pizzas or the nachos as we were full but went straight to the birthday cake 'cause there is always room for dessert.

Very tiring, long day, not to mention the few days prior as I made most of the dishes for the party, plus they were almost all from scratch. Well worth it of course.

Stay tuned as I'll share how I made individual nachos and the curry puff recipe next week!

tell me what to do!

2011-08-01T15:56:00.000+10:00

Hope you had a fantastic weekend!
Mine was non-stop with a 3 yr old birthday party with the family and now I'm recovering. More on that this week.

But first, I bought this fabric swatch from a thrift store last week for $1.
12 shades of upholstery fabric.

My initial thought was to piece them together like patchwork to make a little cushion but am wondering what other ideas are there?

Beanbags? A bunting?

What would you do with it?

what to do with your old washing machine

2011-07-26T18:03:00.000+10:00

Or what your hubby could do with an old washing machine if he thinks like mine.

With the tub from an old washer the man made this.
An outdoor fire pit of sorts.
Add a stand, some firewood and once the fire has died down, you're left with some hot coals, which you can cook over.

MIL tried it out first as she had a giant wok and wanted to make paella.
Which we all got to enjoy.

I have even bigger plans though.
Toasted marshmallows.
Oh yeah, classy.

Something good

2011-07-25T22:02:00.000+10:00

Here we go!

MM is branching out, thanks for your positive feedback in my previous post.

I'm really excited with the new posts I'm planning and I hope you'll enjoy them too.

Thrift store plate covered with cinnamon sugary goodness.

I made these with the toddler a while back and they were delicious straight out of the oven. I ate most of them... and had to force myself to leave a couple for the hubby. I only coated them with cinnamon sugar too so I can only imagine how fast I would've polished them off had they been dunked in chocolate.

Eat them the day of baking because it uses plain flour which I've found with other baked goods don't taste so fab the following day.

Recipe here.

hibernation

2011-07-19T20:36:00.001+10:00

Hello. I've been lazy.

The weather has been fairly crud.

I've been watching Masterchef, loved the NYC special and now constantly craving a bagel with cream cheese and smoked salmon.

Related or not but I've been on a big food kick lately. I am addicted to finding great new recipes to try and boy has it been fun. I could totally turn this into a food blog if I had talent in the food-pretty-ing-up department.

Here are the links to some of the recipes I've tried recently and a few of the things still on my list.

Thai pumpkin soup with coconut milk.
(the girls and I couldn't wait for dinner, we had this for afternoon tea.)

Chicken Piccata for dinner last night and after every mouthful I had to say: YUMMMMMM!
(I didn't use the cream or the white wine, just full cream milk. SO good!)

Silky Cauliflower Soup, plus Chicken Caesar Salad.
(Best CCS dressing ever.)

Want this Mee Rebus soon.

This for the adults to dunk in their red wine.

And this just because I like the stuff.

In other news I've also been doing some crafty endeavours as well as being commissioned to sew cushions for my friend's stall which has been a huge success.

My eldest turns 3 next week so I have a small party to prepare (food, it's all about the food) and have a ton of other things on my list.

Thanks again for stopping by, leaving a comment, saying hello and reading along. It's really cool to know that there are people out there interested and I love the interaction.

I've been reading everyone's blogs too but just don't have as much time nowadays to comment much.

Oh and if you don't have a pop-up comment section on your own blog, it's really hard to leave one because Blogger is a comment-party-pooper and won't let me sign in. So go change your blogs will ya??!!

Hope you're all enjoying your summer / winter and I'll be back soon(ish). heh heh heh

Take care xo

standing out

2011-06-24T13:57:00.000+10:00

When we go to church on Sundays, I don't need a reason to stand out.

That's because we already stand out as the family with the two noisy kids, or
the family who comes in late, or
the family whose daughter likes to announce loudly that she needs to go poo or
the girl whose boots make that loud noise on the floorboards.

Take your pick.

But a couple weeks ago I noticed that every girl over the age of being able to choose what coloured tights they wore to church, all wore black. (I had charcoal tights on that day.)

Yes this is Melbourne but geez, if you've already got a black jacket, skirt and shoes on already, why can't we change it up a little in the tights department?

So the next week I wore these maroon babies from We Love Colors and I really did stand out.

Which I wanted to do.

Side note:
The following week I was delighted to note that one person got the memo to my subtle coloured tights campaign and wore lilac.
She was my M.I.L. .... does that still count?

oh the places we'll go

2011-06-13T21:02:00.000+10:00

It's such a shame that outfits aren't included in passport photos.
Real shame.
Especially as passport photos always end up looking horrible.
True story.

fighting old habits

2011-06-06T12:21:00.001+10:00

If you've been hanging with me for a while, you'll remember I was on a self-imposed Not Dependent on Denim One Week challenge last September. I ended up almost totally ditching my blue jeans for more dressy pants or skirts and felt better for it.

But over the past couple of months, with dramas & a break in routine, I fell back into that old habit of grabbing those jeans again. I guess the feeling of comfort was on my mind, and with the weather turning cold they were the first thing I looked for.

Of course I haven't been taking photos of those outfits.

Last weekend as I was choosing what to wear, grabbing the jeans out of the pile, hubby (of all people!) says to me "What happened to your no denim jeans challenge?" and walked off.
To which I felt guilt knowing he was right. I was falling back again.

So I put the jeans away in the bottom drawer, and grabbed a skirt and tights.
MUCH BETTER.
Even if I knew I wasn't leaving the house and no one would see.

Skirt + Tights (or knee hi's) + boots = comfort.

P.S.
Thanks for your awesome comments regarding my last post. I wasn't sure about sharing as I didn't start this blog to go in that direction but I suppose a few ~~bragging~~ posts here and there won't hurt eh.

in the evenings ...

2011-06-03T06:25:00.001+10:00

... this is what I've been up to.

Tunic dresses.

And a coat for my youngest who will still have to grow a bit more before she can wear it.

All the fabric used for these clothes have been op shop (thrift) finds. It doesn't make me feel so bad if I stuff it up, which thankfully, hasn't happened yet!

Next is a coat for my eldest from new fabric and I've also been attending a sewing class once a week. Our first project is a pair of flannel pj's.

purple is my black

2011-06-01T22:14:00.000+10:00

I've been busy sewing lately, but not for me (yet) - for my girls. It's so lovely to complete something that turns out great and have them wearing it! I hope I can make something for myself that I love just as much.

And as much as my eldest loves pink, I seem to love purple.

It's my alternative to black, which I do not wear because it's not a colour that suits me.

Am I now at the age where I should stick to the colours that work, or do I continue to try new things?

Dinner Date

2011-05-28T17:04:00.000+10:00

Talk about slow posting, but it was exactly a week ago that hubby and I went into the city for a friend's birthday dinner.

It was here, which perhaps some of you locals could vouch for but apart from the atmosphere, and the delicious entrees, I thought the mains were very bland and disappointing.

I got the tunic dress from Ishka a while back when my parents were visiting and could take the pram and the girls because it's one of those stores that are jam packed and you can barely move on your own. I love it's huge pockets and that it's made in Nepal so it sounds more fancy.

Before heading home the hubby needed a strong coffee so we found this place and it made me very sentimental for my now deceased Italian grandparents. I don't drink coffee but I think I would love to just sit in the bar, listening to the old men behind the counter chatting to each other in Italian and soak it in.

And tonight we're having a regular quiet one, with homemade hamburgers and freshly baked melting moments for dessert. Yum.

the lazy way out

2011-05-24T12:38:00.001+10:00

Last week I was down with a cold. But of course mothers don't get sick days, so I still had to get dressed and take the girls for new winter clothes. (Honestly, how fast does an almost 3 year old grow?!)

It was a day that called for utmost comfort so flat boots were in and a slightly over sized knit that made me feel like I was still slopping around at home in an old soft hoodie.

No belt as really, who can be bothered when you're sick?
Necklace? A must, as otherwise this top would've just been boring and blah, which was how I felt of course but who is to know.

By the weekend I was feeling much better. Saturday I had a haircut and eyebrow wax (ahh pampering) and when you can't be bothered thinking up a new outfit, grab the same top half but swap the cuffed pants for overdyed jeans, add some neutral wedges and a belt.

Would you believe me when I say that on Sunday I may have worn the top again but with a pencil skirt, tights, belt and red boots.

Did I or didn't I?

Would she be lazy enough to do that?

You may never know.....

cough cough

2011-05-23T10:17:00.000+10:00

We've all been sick this past week and I've had outfit photos to post, but my computer got upgraded and photo editor got wiped. Annoying! Off to download again.

Did anyone watch The Kennedy doco last night on Channel 2? I was only watching because of Katie Holmes but I'm finding it quite fascinating.

when there was sun

2011-05-16T09:32:00.000+10:00

Last week there was sun, glorious sun... I opted for a thrifted skirt I hadn't worn as I wouldn't dare wear this without tights.

Love these shoes I got recently from Target. I have been drooling over those oxford style shoes for a while, and when these were 30%, I didn't have to think twice. (Target called them "lace up brogues.")

As much as I was worried I'd be checking that my skirt was down all day long, I raced around doing errands with the girls and didn't have any dramas. Phew!

Check out Shoestring Chic which I'm sorry to say was last week and I'll totally blame blogger for not allowing me to post this earlier!

Have a great week, see you soon xo.

Mother's Day 2011

2011-05-08T20:37:00.000+10:00

Hope you had a lovely Mother's Day wherever you are!

Went out for breakfast this morning after church with the family.

Yesterday I finally ordered an assortment of goodies from We Love Colors which I've been meaning to do for ages.
Today I ordered from another favourite online store (another gift to myself) because hey, if I don't go buy myself presents, who will?

nature doesn't pull weird faces

2011-05-01T21:35:00.000+10:00

While wandering around the farm today, I noticed this tree and its berries? seeds? fruit? (ok, give me a break, just because I live on a farm doesn't mean I know all the plant names!)

My point is that they were the same colour as my new top and I thought it was cool so humour me will ya.

Big shout out to my super talented friend who knitted me this gorgeous cowl scarf for my birthday.

And thank you ladies for your kind comments in my previous post too.

not really what i was expecting

2011-04-28T18:40:00.000+10:00

The past two months have been HUGE here in MM land.

We decided to move as hubby was starting a new job.
We moved into temporary accommodation close by so we could fix up and sell our house.
New job fell through.
Hubby resolved issues at old job leading to him now able to stay on.
Now not needing to move, we decided to stay in our temporary (and much more comfortable) house indefinitely.
Oh and I also turned 30.
Big year ahead, if not already.

Things are still busy as we now officially unpack and get settled but our surroundings (not to mention potential photo opportunities) are beautiful and there is a lot more space.

Internet is also up and running after so long. Gotta get my new purchases together and dazzle you with some fab outfits. Wishing I had a good camera to share the place with you too.

Here's a few pics.

And yes, this is me now living on a farm.
I actually like it!

See you soon xo

alive & well

2011-04-06T21:26:00.000+10:00

A quick hello everyone!

Life is slowing but not quite back to normal.

I haven't had much of a chance to visit everyone's blog in the past two weeks... or even take outfit photos.

Hopefully I'll be back in the next week or so.

that scarf

2011-04-06T20:59:00.000+10:00

I like how certain things in your wardrobe have a distinct memory attached to it. This scarf is one of them.

It was sent to me from the U.S. about eight years ago from my penpal. She was very good to me. I visited her twice on both my trips to the States. She and her family were generous hosts and I enjoyed my stays so much. When she sent me this scarf I loved it but for so many years I never wore it. I wasn't sure on the colours as I was more of a neutral gal at the time.

Now it's one of the scarves that I am drawn to and have to put it back to give others a chance. But every time I see it, I always remember her, even when our friendship has drifted apart.

Worn as a long necktie.

Worn as a belt with a skirt, tied at the back.

Worn in a half bow.

Loose bow.

Worn at the wrist.

Tied at the neck, a-la flight attendant.

Worn as a belt with pants.

seven

2011-03-22T19:12:00.000+11:00

I'm sorry to say that since starting this blog 9 months ago, I have received three blog awards but never did the mandatory pass it along and share seven things about myself. I wouldn't say it's not my thing. I'm totally flattered that people even read my blog, comment and follow along. I just never got around to it.

These are the lovely ladies who passed on blog awards to me.

Kimberellie.

Brenda.

Carolyn.

Now for the most ridiculous, heart-wrenching or down right boring seven things I can think of!

1. I like the olive brine in the jar. When I was living at home, my brother and I would fight over who got to drink it.

2. When I cook something that needs topping, (eg. pizza) I am pretty pedantic about having it all evenly spaced. All the cheese, olives, meat, veggies etc MUST be evenly spaced, no large clumps. This also means that I'm usually the last to eat as I'm busy making mine look pretty.

3. I was teased a lot during high school about my weight. I was already self conscious about it so that didn't help. Even the school nurse called up mum to tell her to take me to the doctor as she thought I was anorexic. How's that for your teenager years? I also got teased because I didn't like wearing my hair up so a few guys decided to call me "no ears" ... they stopped after one too many times over who knows how long, when I ran out of the classroom in tears.
Then they realised it wasn't so funny.

4. When I was single, and followed the AFL fairly closely, I would bag out the Victorian teams and players. I ended up marrying a Victorian, who also played footy. Oh the irony.

5. I don't drink coffee because I hate its smell and taste. So if we're "going out for coffee," I'm actually going out for hot chocolate.

6. I got married on a Friday afternoon, in a church, in Perth. I arrived really early. Before the groom. Before most of the guests!

7. When I was 7 months pregnant with #2, I went to Chadstone's 24 hour Christmas trade. I arrived at 730pm and left at 2am, only because my friend couldn't take it any longer. heehee.

You won't believe how long I've spent trying to think of seven things! I'm not passing on any awards as I really can't be bothered going to find the buttons. Sorry.
Here are some other mumma blogs you should go check out though.

...now Mumma
Little in Cowes
Grow. Cook. Sew

Must get back to packing...

I'm looking for boxes

2011-03-16T21:10:00.000+11:00

Joining in with Margo's Shoestring Chic today.

Jumper: So old I can't even remember how much it cost so I'm going to say FREE.

Jeans: $15 and recently overdyed by me. (RIT Wine.) See it in its original BLAH grey glory.

Belt: From another pair of pants, so I'm going to say FREE.

Flats: $4.50

Total: $19.50

BOOYEAH!

Thanks for your comments in my previous post!

It is most definitely a good thing happening here but keeping us all busy. I still have parents about to visit and a big birthday bash for hubby and I next week.

PHEW.

It's so crazy I haven't even thought about what the heck I will wear to the party!!!

life has taken over my life

2011-03-13T21:59:00.001+11:00

I couldn't do a post without photos. That would be a day without sunlight right?

Took the girls to the beach a few weeks back to have a play in the sand. Wish I had taken a book.

Our lives are about to be turned upside down in the not so distant future.
We're excited but won't be able to enjoy days like this for much longer.

In the meantime, I have a couple scheduled posts up my sleeve and hope to get a few more outfit posts over the coming weeks but I might be a bit quiet... hey, I might not... depends on how LIFE gets, which will be busy in some way or another.

In the meantime, just dropping by to say hello! Hope you're all well.

Welcome to new readers. I would love for you to leave a comment if you haven't before so I can check out your own blog.
I'm going to have to plan a giveaway soon because I can't believe how many followers I have since I started!

a busy day

2011-03-05T16:19:00.000+11:00

Wore this for an appointment at the hospital for daughter #2 in the morning, and then playgroup in the afternoon. I was out of the house for seven hours straight (with most of that time spent sitting in the car or in the waiting room or just sitting) and the weather kept going from cold and rainy to warm and sunny.

You can't tell but I wore long dangly silver earrings so I opted not to add a necklace as with the scarf, I thought it was getting too busy. And yes, this is my dyed cardi again.

In the waiting room at the hospital a mother started talking to me and she was really quite nice. Turns out her daughter's name was the same name that we were going to name our first daughter! And her middle name was our daughter's first name! She also trusted me enough to leave her baby and pram behind while she raced to the loo.

Trust or knowledge that no mother in her right mind would want to run off with someone else's baby, as well as their own.

not much

2011-03-03T20:00:00.000+11:00

Haven't got a lot to say right now. The weather turned cold so instead of reaching for the pants, I grabbed my newly arrived ribbed leggings and boy are they warm. I'm also suffering from really bad hay fever. Sniff.

I was going to hold a large knife but thought that was a bit much.
heh heh.

One of those crazy busy days where you are trying to get dinner cooked before the kids get cranky. Hubby returned early as well, so that's extra pressure. But it also meant I got to go hang out at Coles on my own for a while since he was home.

This might sound weird but I felt AWESOME walking in to the store and pushing my trolley around ... it was either these red boots with their fab kitten heels or being dressed up and going out on my own or both or maybe even the sound of my heels clomping the ground. I just felt good.

I don't think you have to be wearing the latest fashions, I think you just need to put in a bit of effort to show that you care enough about yourself. A bit of pride.

You feel it inside and it shows on the outside.

give me colour!

2011-02-28T10:34:00.000+11:00

I must be starting a new habit for Sundays by wearing something really bright to distract from how tired I look since I wake at 5.30am.

This cardi is one that I dyed last week (using RIT Wine) and I'm loving its new lease on life.

Next time I'll change up the belt for the skinny brown one as I'm always fiddling round with this one!
The cardi originally looked like this:

I wore this dress last year for Christmas day.

Check out a skirt I overdyed last year with AMAZING results.
I still have two more pieces to show you that got the RIT treatment!

winter sale goodness

2011-02-26T11:51:00.001+11:00

I honestly don't know how some mothers take their children when they're clothes shopping for themselves. I've done it a few times and although my girls were well behaved, I did not enjoy being rushed or the stress of waiting for everything to go pear-shaped. When I go clothes shopping it's my escape!

I've had to resort to op shops for 'new' additions to my wardrobe since having kids. Otherwise if I do go to a shopping centre, I drag hubby along to take the girls so I can race into the stores. Again, not fun.

Now that I'm best friends with ASOS, I love how I can shop with little ones happily ~~screaming~~ playing around the house and not drag them through the stores. I'm happy. They're happy. ASOS of course is happy.

Until the weather cools down, I won't be sweating it out in my new purchases just yet. (I've received all except the leggings.)

I heart this purple trench! It's even better in person.

Ribbed leggings in grey.
Mmmm toasty leg goodness.

Military roll neck jumper with cute buttons on the shoulder.

Ruched sleeve long sleeve top.
The colour is called Rust. I'm branching out trying new colours this year.

{all images from asos}

What I love though is that everything I bought was reduced BIG TIME. I've planned ahead and bought for the upcoming winter season.

I've also grabbed a few things in my wardrobe to have a dunk in the RIT dye bath... stay tuned for their big reveal!

party of five

2011-02-25T14:30:00.000+11:00

If anyone knows me, I'm pretty shy when it comes to meeting new people. In large groups. I'm the listener. Not the loud outgoing one. Nuh-uh. I'm more of an intimate one-on-one kinda gal.
But saying that, once I get to know someone better I do have a bit of a loud crazy side too.
*fondly reminisces uni days and excellent group of gal friends*

This year I'm really trying to make more of an effort to get out there and meet new people and hopefully make some fantastic friends. I joined a local playgroup which just started up and besides the mother who is running it, I was the only one who showed up this week. Yep. Me, my two girls and her and her daughter. A most excellent party of five girls.

I know we've already made a great start.

Some of you were curious as to what I put together for this first ~~date~~ playgroup.

Comfy leather shoes for the 20 min walk.
Pants so that I could sit on the floor with the girls without worrying about flashing anyone.
Thrifted shirt that was casual enough to be dressy but not too dressy. (yeah that makes perfect sense.)
No belt to enhance the casual carefree vibe of the outfit.

Check out others who have tried something new with Kym!

beef or the chicken?

2011-02-23T19:24:00.001+11:00

Thank you for flying MM Airlines.

Your seat is on the left, number 8.

Champagne? Yes of course.

Chocolates? On their way!

For mains would you like beef or the chicken?

Are you getting that I felt like a Flight Attendant in this outfit? I could work for Qantas easily. I have such a pleasant manner and am happy to slip you an extra (mini) bottle of wine to take home. And those rowdy guys up the back drinking too much beer and talking obnoxiously will be told to shut up, in the nicest possible way of course.

My gosh this jacket is so very red. I'm glad the rest of the outfit was muted because they just didn't stand a chance against THE RED JACKET. Maybe I wore it subconsciously to distract from how tired I was looking. (hence my headless body.)

Now I'm off to go plan an outfit for tomorrow. We're attending a new "walk and talk" playgroup so must find the perfect combo of casual and not casual. Totally awesome, but not stand-offish. And of course look like I didn't plan my outfit at all, but just grabbed the first clean things I saw in my cupboard.

Decisions, decisions.

My fancy pants

2011-02-21T22:29:00.000+11:00

WELL! My first asos order arrived on Friday and I am quite pleased and relieved after waiting patiently for two weeks. Buying online is pretty hit and miss but thankfully this was a definite HIT!

The blue knit raglan jumper is just lovely. It looks good quality. It fits great, although my monkey arms make it look like 3/4 sleeves but overall I'm glad the weather has cooled the past few days for me to wear it out.

The jumper is cropped which is a length I'm not used to but liking it nonetheless. Will be fun to have different tops peeking underneath.

{image from asos}

Feet up, enjoying the (mostly) finished painted door frames and trims.

And leaning back on my newly sewn cushion. YAY! Come on sewing mojo! Come back to me!

Joining in with the lovely Kym for her Fancy Pants!

patiently

2011-02-16T15:49:00.000+11:00

As I wait for the sound of the package man's van to drive up and deliver me my first asos order, (honestly, I can recognise that engine sound from halfway down the street!) I'll show an outfit pic from a few weeks ago. Yes, lazy of me.

Just a casual errands outfit.
Skirt was thrifted. Grey tee. Belt. Elastic headband worn as a bracelet.
Good times people. Good times.
You'll see me again when asos arrives.

Peace out.

Not a Valentine's post

2011-02-14T20:08:00.000+11:00

Instead it's a: "This is what I got up to on Sunday" post.

My day started early with a 530am alarm so that I can shower, dress and then get the little ones out of bed by 630 for brekky, get them dressed and leave by 7-ish to get to mass on time.

We had to sit at the back because we were late.

Before I could even walk through the door I had to take almost one year old to the bathroom to change her nappy.

Back inside it was less than 10mins before toddler announced she needed to go potty. I take her. We go back inside church. Five mins later she says loudly "I NEED TO GO POO POTTY MUM!" and then farts. Twice.

We return unsuccessful.

A few minutes later she tells me she has to go poo. Off we go again. Nothing.

Spend the rest of the time separating the girls and keeping the bubba from crawling out the door.

On the drive home I tell hubby we need to take outfit photos for my blog. He isn't too thrilled as he's got steak in the fridge waiting for him. He does do as he's told and we go to a little cemetery on the outskirts of our town because I thought it would be a cool location.

Turns out it's just awkward as I don't think you should be walking around smiling while looking at strangers' graves. Should you?
Plus hubby has made it even more awkward to pose infront of to take photos. I know he does try.... well, I think behind that "do I really have to take these photos?" look on his face, he is trying.

After an early lunch we head to the inlaws farm for some much anticipated blackberry picking. Put bubs to sleep in their house and drive down the farm to the wild blackberries.

Toddler loves to eat them but not keen on the picking through the thorns. Mumma finds the thorns, bugs, spiders, flies, long grass with the possibility of snakes and toddler-sooking-each-time-she-gets-pricked annoying. Hubby is in his element and turns into this wild scavenger. I suppose he's channeling his inner Bear Grylls.

I go off to take some blog photos, with my trusty self-timer who knows how to bring out my inner model and not make me feel uncomfortable. Gotta love him.

It must be the hat because all of a sudden the cows come home. I know, funny play on words. heh heh. Seriously, the cows did come.

Don't they look delicious? I mean, adorable.

After three hours on the farm that cheeky grin was wiped off. It turned into a desperate plea to get out of there. Food. Drink. Civilisation! Anywhere but these blackberry bushes!!

Finally on the way home, we did my mandatory sweep of the Coles car park to cause havoc and terror among the local community.

This pic is dedicated to Posie. As you can see I'm a one toothed bandanna wearing hell raiser.

And I hang out at Coles. *wink wink*

my latest obsession

2011-02-10T15:05:00.000+11:00

... is online shopping.

No, that's incorrect. I've always loved browsing online stores but never bought clothes because I'm one of those people who like to walk into a store, look around and touch and feel everything. I also can't ever find things that fit just right. I go up a size, down a size and pieces that look good on the display model look wrong on me.

I got onto ASOS lately and am hooked. They show photos of the clothes on a real live model, front and back, list what size she is wearing and her height. There's also free worldwide shipping with no minimum spend. Hello?! Excellent!

So while we're in the middle of summer, I've been browsing through winter sale items and spying absolute bargains.
After a month of drooling, putting things in my cart and changing my mind, I finally ordered a jumper (that's sweater for you Yank readers.) and it's suppose to arrive next week! Fingers crossed I got the right size.

There is also a 95% chance that I will order again by the end of the day. I'll do a post with what I ordered later.

Have you ordered from ASOS before? Any tips for shopping online?

rolled and wrapped? check.

2011-02-08T21:02:00.001+11:00

I love getting inspired by fellow bloggers.

Recently I stumbled upon Steph at Mon Petit Poppet.

This post caught my eye with the scarf wrapped around her wrist and thought "I could do that!"

Next time I will get someone to help me tie it on so it doesn't dangle into the pot while cooking dinner. However it did make the distance grocery shopping in Coles and getting petrol.

The other new thing I tried was rolling up my pants. I know, lots of bloggers do it but cropped trousers hasn't been my thing.

But I tried it and liked it. I felt like a woman living on the edge. No joke. I was skipping down those aisles at Coles baby.

Maybe this year I'll be brave and try out a few more fashion trends and not be so safe.

Thanks to Brenda who has passed on a Stylish Blogger Award! Will have to think of seven things to ~~put you all to sleep.~~ I mean, amaze you.

tent-like

2011-02-03T19:39:00.000+11:00

It's one of those dresses that look great on the hanger.

You try it, buy it and then realise when you're wearing it that there is enough room out front for a watermelon. Darn those pleats!

But despite all that, the fabric is beautiful and I wouldn't part with it.

Unless of course the price was right. *wink*

I attempted to make my own version of the rosette bib necklace like Kami. Not bad I say.

the isolation

2011-01-31T19:53:00.001+11:00

Isn't it time for another Mummalogue?
Yes it has been a while between drinks, I admit. (make mine a baileys & milk on ice thanks.)

Today's topic of conversation is The Isolation of being a SAHM. (sounds like a great novel title yeah.)

I'm talking about being a new SAHM with pre-school age children, and in my situation, living in a new town too.

When I moved from Western Australia, across the country to Victoria four years ago, the only people I knew was my husband and his family. I worked full time for six months before I gave birth to my first child.

All of a sudden I'm at home with a newborn. It is hard to make friends when you're new to the area and the people you do know are working during the day.

My local community health centre organises first time mothers to join a Mother's Group so that you can meet other new mothers and hopefully continue the friendship further. The first meeting had fifteen mothers. By the second week there were five, with the majority of us left being new to the area and NEEDING some friendship. The rest were locals and had friends already it seems.

But what I also needed was friends that could talk about things besides our children. Having children the same age is not necessarily the basis for a lasting friendship. I've only kept in touch with one of those mothers because we have similar interests.

I wanted to be with friends who knew ME as a person, and not just as a mother. I missed my friends and family in my home town who knew who I was.

I don't know if being a SAHM in my hometown would be much different to now.

I definitely know I would not have my SIL living nearby, who has been a constant friend in the four years I've lived here.

I know I could have it a lot worse as I at least have hubby's family and they're great, (I have to say that cause some are reading. hehehe.) but I am so glad to have made a couple fabulous friends already in the few years so far.

Tell me your situation and perhaps how you've overcome the isolation if you've felt it?

Will things change when my children start school and I meet other mothers there?

Or are you like me who value quality friendships over quantity?

Check out some previous Mummalogues:

Is being a SAHM a luxury?
Before and After?
On the topic of breastfeeding.
Mother or carer?

whose that skirt {running around with you?}

2011-01-27T20:07:00.002+11:00

Please tell me you know that song and are a total child of the 80's?

And if you were an adult of the 80's you need to 'fess up here that you had hair just like the gals in the video! The big hair, the big hair!

{Close up of vintage skirt at the request of fave SIL}

So back to the post.

Remember my vintage skirt a while back? I wasn't sure what to do with it. Lengthwise and pocket wise. In the end I have removed the pockets as it was ultimately very bulky. So this is how it looks now.

{ Pockets? Gone. }

I like the length but think it will work well at the knee. The waist definitely needs to be taken out slightly so I can breathe.

{ A gust of wind demonstrates how billowy this skirt can be. }

Here is how it looked originally.

Oh and big thanks to Snappy Q for the necklace I won in her giveaway. It came all the way from Canada. Go say hello as she recently announced that she's expecting her first!

Disclaimer: I may have played that youtube video repeatedly for over half an hour during dinner with the girls... and danced ... and sang... and wished I had big hair too. And was told I am the coolest mumma EVER! (okay, I made that last part up.)

Australia Day

2011-01-26T20:59:00.001+11:00

Today was Australia Day which means a public holiday and that is always good. I wouldn't say I am the most patriotic person around but I do believe the saying "Australia is the lucky country."

Today's outfit I tried to incorporate some Aussie colours from the flag: blue, white and red but got the shades all wrong. That's cool, I ate my BBQ cooked snags so I've done my duty.

I really just wanted to wear my 'new' shoes. I thrifted them on Monday and boy did I score! Two pairs of pants, two tops, shoes and a long cardi for just over $30.

I'm also participating in Margo's Shoestring Chic ~~which I will link to when her blog post goes up~~. This won't be the cheapest outfit out there but meh.

Top: 9.95 (on sale)
Trousers with belt: 49.95 (on sale)
Shoes: 4.50 (thrifted)
Earrings: gift
Necklace: giveaway win
Flower pin: 'borrowed' from mum (and will not be returned, let's be honest here.)

Total: $64.40

Yes! and No.

2011-01-22T19:24:00.000+11:00

FYI - potty training report ahead.

{short trip to Granny's was accident free }

So.
Toddler is definitely potty trained during the day. It clicked for her within 24hrs. She is great at home. Just runs off to go potty when she needs to and then tells me after she's done #2 so that she can get her cookie reward. She also helps herself to a sticker after #1's. (We started out with stamps but the ones I got are pretty crummy... stupid Smiggle.)

And contrary to the photo I posted here with her cute naked butt, we actually didn't do potty training in the nuddy. She's not too keen on running around naked but that was fine as the method we used requires underwear to be worn.

The potty training I used was from here. It says it is a three day method, which yeah, my toddler got the day time training within that time frame but nights are not as good. (I didn't think their method for nights was very detailed or helpful.)

We still have wet undies and sheets when I get her up in the morning. Only once has she called out twice in one night as she had wet herself and realised. But I'm not sure if she is wetting herself first thing when she wakes because I've checked on her at night and she's dry. (She goes to bed with just undies. No pull-ups for us thanks. If she's going to do it and be a "big kid" then allow them the full opportunity to be a "big kid" and trust them. I think it will just take some time as they have little bladders and they're learning to control it.)

We've only been at it for less than a week so I think we're doing well. Tomorrow is the long trip to church. That will be challenging. One hour there. One hour in church. Another hour home. Yikes.

Anyway. It's thrown our routine out and made the days longer for me and a few interrupted nights has made for a very tired, grumpy mumma. But with no day time accidents in four days you gotta smile!

I liked this method of potty training because it was similar to my own teaching philosophy (when I was teaching) and how I'm used to being with my own children. Tons of praise for the right behaviour. Positive comments. Short, precise phrases on what you need them to do by saying it in a way that empowers them and not making them feel like you're forcing them in any way.

They state that this method also works for teaching multiples, which I can't vouch for but for three days of total lockdown with one child, it worked for us. If you want to know anything in particular you are welcome to email me or leave a comment.

Next week I'll have to tackle trips out in public and see how I go.

I thought I was being original(ish)

2011-01-17T19:56:00.001+11:00

Don't you hate when you find an inspirational outfit photo...

{Image from Anthropologie}

... and do your own seasonal take on it. Which you LOVE! And it includes the cute jacket you thrifted last week for only $13 (and when you looked online the original was $80)...

... and you plan to wear the outfit to church on Sunday and feel really smug with yourself, knowing you look and feel fabulous....

... only to remember on the drive to church that another mumma, (who is heavily pregnant,) was wearing basically the same as this only last Sunday! (although her version was long skirt, long tunic and cute cropped jacket.)

HO HUM.
I guess I'm not so original after all.

Just to prove that it was hubby who took these photos...
because who else takes them from INSIDE my car??!

WARNING!

2011-01-16T14:36:00.000+11:00

POTTY TRAINING IN PROGRESS.

Watch your step! (it could get slippery)

this week in MM-land

2011-01-13T22:33:00.001+11:00

Yes, I've been pretty slack on this end. It has been very humid with heavy rainfall. That means I get dressed in the morning and by lunch time I've had enough. My hair is frizzy, my face is all shiny and there is a layer of icky-ness all over.

But this is what has been going on.

Monday, Wednesday and today I took the girls to three different thrift stores to try my luck in the clothes department. I am now the proud owner of two skirts, two long sleeve tops (one with the original price tag still on), summer scarf and this absolutely awesome lightweight jacket.

The girls got some good things too so we're all happy. The only thing with trying on clothes in thrift stores is that their change rooms aren't big enough for prams so you gotta leave the baby and toddler outside while you quickly change and hope no one walks off with them. Not likely to happen I know, but still.

QLD is having a flood crisis.
Towns are cut off and Brisbane city is underwater too. One family I know have been in QLD for a month visiting family over Christmas. They drove up and now can't drive home because the roads are underwater and destroyed. One of my blogger friends Elizabeth who lives in Brisbane is thankfully safe when I checked last night. Power is cut off, there is only one road not blocked off by the floods out of the area but thankfully she and her family are ok and the flood waters only reached their backyard as they are on higher ground.

Please remember all those people in your prayers who are now without their homes, or are looking for their loved ones. It will be a long road to recovery. But Australians are very resilient and stick together.

I started reading War & Peace. I've read 16 pages in two days, embarrassing I know. Sugar City Journal is doing a monthly book read-a-thon so I'm trying to keep up.

Morgan from Pepper Design Blog gave birth to her first child, a daughter earlier this week. She is the cutest little thing.

And Margo is playing a Shoestring Chic game once a month. I was too lazy and hot to take photos of my outfit today. But I will next month.

I am still painting my house. It's a mess. Things are starting to slow down.

Motivation. starting. to. decline. must. maintain. ugh.

Yeahhhhh..... and with my resolutions... I'm not going to bed on time either. I started sewing a skirt and stopped because it wasn't turning out how I thought it would in my head. I guess you could say I chucked a tanti. heh heh heh. I did unpick the giant pockets from my vintage skirt though. That's something.

And I tried out this tee again which I sooked about last year. (Check out my funny headless photo too... and me in jeans! Ick. I haven't worn jeans since forever now. Go me!)

I thought the tee worked better with the skirt but I just couldn't capture it in the photos.

See you soon.
xo

rain makes you do silly things

2011-01-10T23:35:00.000+11:00

I told toddler to get out of the rain while I stood getting wet and took photos of myself.

Sorry for the mixed messages little one. Do as I say, not as I do!

I bought the latest trashy edition of Marie Claire magazine just for these free sunnies. And the 20% off discount voucher to Witchery which is useless because they don't have a darn thing worth buying.

This is the top I bought from my first unsuccessful trip to the shops. The colour is called "watermelon" which is nice and juicy. Yesterday's visit was just as disappointing with only a 3/4 sleeve plain top. It was on sale and they called the colour "raspberry red." Fascinating stuff I know.

When I saw myself in the mirror this morning with those ruffled shoulders I had visions of these sorts of outfits, you know, Vegas style.... heh heh heh. Thankfully they aren't as bad!

Has anyone been through issues when your next birthday is going to be a significant one, you realise you're married, with young kids and you decide NOT to make excuses for friends anymore?

This year I'm all about my family and me more.

Yes this might be all confusing. I think I am confused too.
Bed time for me.....

zzzzzzzz.

a tale of two dresses

2011-01-07T15:20:00.000+11:00

Last weekend the family and I went clothes shopping. I couldn't find a single thing to buy that I loved or even suited my body shape. (Does anyone else HATE the current fashion?!).Which was annoying to say the least. I had to undress so many times for nothing! I wore this dress underneath my wrap dress for some extra coverage as I think you might have guessed by now, I'm not one for exposing myself. And of course sensible flats for walking around the shopping centre.

In the end I only got a tee and a skirt (which I have now returned.) I suppose it is more motivation for me to get onto #3 of my New Year's Resolutions.

See how I wore this dress last winter, during my Not Dependent on Denim One Week Challenge.

Guest Mumma: Kami

2011-01-04T17:09:00.000+11:00

My first Guest Mumma for 2011, is Kami who has become one of my good email penpals over the past year. She is a young American SAHM of two and I asked her to share what type of role fashion has played in her life.

"I have always enjoyed fashion, but feel like I lost some of it when I left High School and went to College. During those days, money was really tight (okay, okay...it still is!) and I didn't have the ability to go shopping like I did in High School. Then, I got married and finances were tight as well. Add to that two children, and it's not surprising that I lost my focus on fashion."

"After my second baby, I rediscovered that it really makes me feel good to wear clothing that I feel beautiful in. I have started to put more thought and effort into the way I dress because it helps me feel productive, beautiful, and stylish. Who doesn't want to be a stylish mom? I sure do. I'm not all about following the trends, but some trends I'm enjoying are ruffles, boots, and belts. My outfits are all very simple and they have to be comfortable. I don't accessorise much beyond a pretty pair of dangly earrings (the bigger the better for this girl) and I rarely wear heels...I'm definitely a flats lover."

"I'm not a risk taker and tend to stay safe and classy in my style choices. Lately, however, I have tried to be more daring and add more color to my wardrobe. I love to wear black, so it takes a lot of thought for me to put together an outfit with color. I think the biggest challenge is staying classy and true to myself while learning to take risks and step outside my comfort zone."

"It is also a challenge to be fashionable on a very tight budget, but it can be done! I never spend more than $20 or $30 on an item...and really, most items are under $15! Sure, they won't last as long, but that's my budget, so that's what I have to do. Fashion goals this year - buy a pair of heels I love...and wear them more than once! I'm grateful that this year I discovered myself again, hiding somewhere in my closet full of clothes...it feels good. The best thing I can do as a momma is to take care of myself because when I'm happy I feel better and treat my beautiful family much better. Staying balanced in all areas of my life (including fashion) helps me to be happy!!"

I'll also mention that Kami made those gorgeous rosette bib necklaces!

See my other Guest Mummas' here.

The year of trying something new

2011-01-03T14:39:00.000+11:00

Happy New Year friends, family, friends of the family, family of friends as well as lurkers, family lurkers and lurkers of families.

I actually had no plans for the New Year and I'm cool with that. We've had so many late nights with hubby having holidays so one of my new year's resolution hasn't even happened yet. I am getting right into it tonight as hubby is back at work tomorrow (is it wrong of me to say YAY?) so from now on I expect a full glorious night of beauty sleep.

I think I am notorious for buying something I don't wear right away. I suppose when you're breastfeeding that is a valid excuse for not wearing dresses and tunic tops. But that has slowed down so I made myself wear this dress / top which Megan sent me early last year and yes, haven't worn yet.

It's a bit short for my personal taste but hanging out at home I can handle it til I figure out what I'm going to do to refashion it. It's slightly loose on me so I used my trusty scarf to cinch it in. And without even realising it, I have done my first ever pattern mixing! I like-y.

On a personal note, this year I have ditched facebook. Such a waste of time. Yes it's good for some things but for most part it's not. I prefer an email as that way when you share something, every. other. person. on facebook isn't notified. Seriously, is it their business to know what you said to a friend they don't even know?!

new year's resolutions

2010-12-31T13:47:00.000+11:00

I don't think I've ever really kept to my resolutions in previous years. I figure it was because I didn't have any children, had too much time on my hands and could easily put things off for another day.

But now I'm pretty busy with two under three and time is very precious. And time for me is even harder to come by so I started to think about my goals for 2011 which I really want to achieve.

I tried to make them realistic and am optimistic that they can be achieved if I have them up on the fridge to see as a constant reminder. And I'm putting it up here on my blog so that you are free to throw it up in my face throughout the year if I get lazy.

In no particular order I thought of four goals to set for the new year.

1. To set a regular bedtime of 10.30pm. Between 10 and 10.25pm I need to be getting ready for bed, not still doing stuff.

2. To get to mass an extra two times per month. Even if it isn't at my regular church. It's good for me and it's good for my children to continue to practice how to behave in church and learn their faith.

3. To sew one piece of clothing for myself a month. This could be a refashion instead.

4. To start some sort of regular exercise.

I don't know what the year ahead will hold for me and my family but I'm looking forward to it!

Wishing you and your family all the best for 2011.

Thank you for stopping by, reading and commenting. I appreciate the time you take to see me in my little quiet corner of the world.

What are your goals for the new year?

And for Margo who asked, here is some of what I've been painting. Still only priming but liking the improvement!

the height of summer

2010-12-30T20:50:00.002+11:00

Really, it is summer here. The calendar says it's so. But at the beginning of the week hubby and I went on a date night (thanks SIL for babysitting!) and it was freezing. Hence the tights, layers and knits. Ridiculous.

We went out for dinner, had a glass of wine, then another drink with dessert and somehow we managed to stay awake throughout the movie. Darn those late sessions.

We saw The King's Speech with Colin Firth (aka Mr Darcy) so there probably was no chance of me dozing off! Mmmm.. mmmm...

Don't you love an 11.30pm photoshoot?

Christmas Day

2010-12-29T22:46:00.000+11:00

Hello Bloggy-land.
I know everyone is off enjoying their holidays and families because it's been a bit slow these past few days. Not that I mind. I've got hubby home and he messes up my routine so I've been sending the girls out with him so that I can do some painting in the house. Because hubby hates painting with a passion. So if I want something done in that department, it's up to me.

I hope you all enjoyed your Christmas!

Mine was hectic, busy, crazy, enjoyable, tiring, busy, tiring and of course, tiring. But isn't it always the case when you have young children?

Christmas Lunch outside under the marquee

There were 31 people at our Christmas lunch. Family, relatives, friends and distant relations visiting from Sweden. (cool huh!) and by the end of the day when we got home, put the girls to bed, I crawled into mine with a major headache. Champagne on an empty stomach is not a good idea.

You might be surprised when I say that hubby took this photo, because it turned out fairly good.

But he took this one as well.

I guess I should be more specific when I hand him the camera saying "Can you take a photo of us?" because that's what he literally does. Takes photos of us then and there.

I must remember to say "Will you take a photo of us WHEN WE ARE READY."

This is the vintage dress I bought in the city a month ago.

Honestly I like the dress but I had to change it up a bit to make it more my own style. I wanted to wear it a bit differently but ran out of time and didn't have the right accessories.

But that's another post.

Finished!

2010-12-24T14:40:00.001+11:00

Since Daylight savings began, we can drive around to find some new locations for outfit photos when hubby gets back from work.

Like this church entrance in town. Except hubby refuses to get out of the car since someone might see us. So he stays in the car and zooms in as close as he can get. SIGH.

It's Christmas Eve afternoon here. I am so exhausted. I am all cooked, baked and sewed out! I had to take off another major thing from my list as I'd rather spend Christmas eve relaxing and hanging out with the family than stressing in the kitchen, getting frantic. I'll plan ahead better next year.

I have to iron my vintage dress ready for tomorrow and figure out how to style it. YAY!

Thank you for your lovely comments, for stopping by and following along. I really appreciate being part of this blog community and hearing from you.

MERRY CHRISTMAS, and stay safe!

toot-toot!

2010-12-23T14:43:00.002+11:00

For the past few months on Sunday mornings we have driven past a local farm that has begun selling a small range of fruits, veges, plants, herbs and produce. The sign that got us though reads "local olives." *Drool* We finally got around to stopping last weekend.
How fun is it to drive into someones property and discover what they have hidden... say for example, an old train carriage?! We bought olives and local honey and then I dragged hubby over to take pics. It was pretty rusty and cobwebby inside so I was not about to climb up in a skirt for really cool photos so these ones will have to do.
Hubby was holding the baby while taking these, and toddler was holding the olives (see if you can spot her!)

We've had a bit of a cold snap the past few days so I've actually taken advantage of that to break out my tights again that I forgot about over winter. I'm wearing white spotty ones here but it's a bit hard to see.

Two more sleeps til Christmas! I've had to scribble some things off my list as there just isn't enough time. Remind me next year to start getting ready for Christmas in January!

Vintage do or don't?

2010-12-22T11:16:00.000+11:00

I purchased this vintage skirt at Easter. Haven't worn it yet. I had plans on refashioning it to a more comfortable knee length. And remove some of it's bulkiness as it is so gathered at the waist I probably have enough fabric for two skirts. (Hmm.. thinking.) It has two giant pockets, with a flap, so that makes four pockets really. The waist is pretty tight too.

I thought it would be best to wear it with a fitted top to balance out the poofiness of the skirt. Wasn't sure about the scarf.

I ditched the scarf and changed it with a brown belt which I like a lot more. I'm not sure about cutting up the skirt yet. It is a vintage Italian designer/fabric, so I'm a bit scared I might ruin it.

Honestly, what to do?
I think the length is a bit iffy.
Thoughts?

Christmas: Outdoors

2010-12-21T22:43:00.001+11:00

Some random Christmas photos from the past three years...

Christmas Day lunch 2007 with my parents

Anti pasta and seafood

Christmas 2007. Hot 40C+ day! (pictured with my Dad.)

Christmas lunch 2008 with about 17+ of hubby's family

Traditional Christmas roast lunch with hubby's family

Romantic Christmas Eve dinner with hubby, 2008

Early Christmas lunch with visiting parents, 2010

side together, bob. side together, bob.

2010-12-18T19:30:00.000+11:00

I took dancing lessons when I was four and five. We even had a concert in the city and I got to wear a cute pixie hat with sequins and have make up on! Wooooo.

When I chose this outfit I felt like a dance instructor. The dress is from a Melbourne designer who has a background in dance so her clothes are very loose and flowy and dance-y.

Which isn't really my style but because I wasn't going out that day I thought I would be brave and wear something "not me" anyway.

These are the best dance poses I can do. Okay, I probably could have done better but it's a bit embarrassing!

I cinched in the dress at the waist with a scarf, otherwise I'd look like a stick wearing an over sized piece of fabric. Mmmm hmmm.

I don't know about these leggings. I think they make my skinny legs look skinnier. Maybe I need ones that aren't shiny and so fitted. I'm not usually a leggings wearer.

How are your Christmas preparations coming along? One week to go! I have done so much baking and sewing and still have so much left to do!

SIL traditions

2010-12-13T22:57:00.001+11:00

I am really quite lucky to have some fabulous sister in laws who are also wonderful friends. (One you've met before.) We have started our own SIL tradition where just us gals go out for dinner every few months. I love it because there are no children, no husbands and we can just relax, catch up and share stories. There are four of us so far (although one is living overseas. Come back soon!) and when all the siblings are married there will eventually be eight of us.

Last weekend was our second SIL dinner.
We went to this place. Absolutely awesome.
Italian waiters. House vino. Lasagna. Giants jars of Nutella. Homemade mozzarella and salami.
One waiter even called me "bella" but I know what Italian men are like. I grew up with them. I'm related to them. I'm half them. So you can't fool me you smooth talking charming Italian man you.

So do you have any traditions with your SIL's? Do you get on well with them or do you live far apart?

Christmas: in the kitchen

2010-12-09T20:47:00.000+11:00

I really should tidy my kitchen before I take photos but oh well. I'm busy enough as is. Plus I was in the middle of cooking a curry for dinner.

Yes, my kitchen cupboards are purple. No we didn't paint them that colour. That's how it came when we bought the house... four years ago. We'll get to painting or replacing them one day. But hubby did replace the crummy laminate bench tops with this awesome timber one which he made himself. By hand. His own two hands. I married myself a handy, talented husband.

{Look at your man, now back to mine, now back to yours. Your man could be like my man if he built you your own timber bench top. Sadly your man cannot.... what? too much? haha, sorry.}

Moving right along.
I am going to be in the kitchen A LOT this Christmas because I'm giving a lot of handmade and baked goodies. This is what I'm thinking so far:
Gingerbread men. White Christmas. Biscotti. Giant freckles. Brownies.
Maybe all of them, maybe I'll change my mind.

Here's some ideas for desserts for Christmas day.

I made this Mille-Feuille for our early Christmas lunch. I didn't really tidy it or style it pretty for the photo but trust me. This is GOOD. The best thing? It actually is very light so if you've had a huge lunch, there's still room for dessert.

Watermelon Sorbet.

I used this recipe and it is so easy. Delicious too.

Life is going to get easier as I'm getting an ice cream attachment for my Kitchen Aid mixer for Christmas. YES!

If you've got some easy Christmas gift ideas that you're doing, send me the link too.

Christmas: Wreath

2010-12-07T15:36:00.002+11:00

My Our Christmas wreath is hanging inside, by the front door. No, not on the front door. I don't have a hook and don't want it on the flyscreen so that random drunk people and/or rowdy teenagers walking past in the early hours of the morning can come steal it.

I made this a few weeks back with a little bit of help from hubby and it was totally free. We pulled longer branches from a tree, (from the inlaws farm) plucked off the loose leaves and began winding it around each branch to secure it before joining the ends together to create a circle shape. Wrap and wind more branches around until you are happy with the result.

I added the decoration but it was still fairly plain so then ribbon was added. Not a very traditional colour but it was the only piece long enough.

Stay tuned as I'll share some of our family's Christmas day traditions!

the dodgy playground

2010-12-06T21:43:00.000+11:00

It's been a hot couple of weeks. Last week we ventured out early in the day to a new playground.

I didn't think anything of it until we arrived and I saw how isolated we were. This playground is surrounded by bushland, away from the main road and near a walking track.

I realised that if some psycho person saw me there alone with a toddler and baby, I could be an easy target. I kept my wits about me but within 15 minutes we left.

I don't think I was being paranoid. I had a weird feeling and thought I'd rather be safe than sorry. And after chatting to a couple of friends about it, I think I made a good decision to trust my judgement.

I might have eyes in the back of my head to keep an eye on my children, but I don't know what other people are seeing and thinking.

How do you feel about it? Any dodgy situations you've been in with your children where you had to go with your gut instinct?

So yeah, mmm. Err. Ahem.

2010-11-29T13:20:00.000+11:00

What can I say? I'm pretty busy here. My blog is not my career so I don't feel guilty about leaving it alone for a while here and there.

I am sewing like a mad woman to complete Christmas presents and baby presents that should have been made months ago. My parents are visiting for five days this weekend for an early Christmas so there is that to think about too.

I still get dressed everyday though. This outfit was from two weeks ago today for playgroup. I could call it "mother's group" but that would be a lie as there is a father who comes. Yep, awkward.

I love red and purple. Especially together. Two of my favourite colours. I think they can be worn no matter what season it is.

Does anyone have their Christmas day outfit planned yet?
I don't but I haven't worn the second vintage dress I bought in the city so I could break it out then.
It has a forgiving elastic waist to cover a bloated stomach...

Vintage Christmas

2010-11-23T21:04:00.001+11:00

Last weekend was hubby's work Christmas lunch, held at the Zoo.
Lovely location, first warm day in ages (hello lack-of-water-and-too-much-sun headache!) and no children allowed. We were rebels and took the 9 month old anyway as she doesn't eat delicious catered food or drink alcohol.

As mentioned in this post, I wanted to wear one of my new vintage dresses from my trip to the city but was worried it wasn't going to work with trousers underneath and I don't have leggings/tights to work with it AND it was going to be too warm for them anyway AND the dress is a bit short to wear with bare legs.

Vintage tortoise, Vintage dress.

In the end, trousers worked, I needed a belt to pull everything together (the dress originally had a belt as there are loops but obviously it went AWOL) and I thought I'd be sensible and wear flats.
They gave me blisters anyway.
Yep, I was one of those people who gets all dressed up to go to the Zoo and spends most of the day limping around.

Caution: Short dress ahead.
Saved by the pants.

Funny thing was two years ago we brought baby #1 along to the work Christmas lunch but this time it was baby #2. We overheard a few people wondering to themselves if this was the same baby as last time. Errr....?

And now a word from the Zoo sponsors:

Honestly, *is* your bum guilt free?

tie your scarf

2010-11-22T13:36:00.003+11:00

I was wearing this scarf last week and liked how it turned out. It is similar to a chic Parisian bow but with a casual twist.

Try it out yourself!

(My scarf is long and skinny.)

Wrap the scarf around your neck twice.

Tie the end into a bow.

Pull one side of the bow out, letting it hang loose.

Oh Christmas Tree

2010-11-21T22:25:00.001+11:00

I'm pretty excited about Christmas this year because my two and a half year old understands a lot more and is able to help with certain things. I think you also make that extra effort when you know it means seeing happy little faces and how much they enjoy the time spent making new traditions together. I have so many different activities, ideas and things to bake with her but don't know how far we'll get.

I think it is a generous time of year. But I also think it is easy to replace generosity with consumerism. If we had the money I might enjoy the frantic, crowded stores, shopping for special gifts for my family but in reality I don't.

I'm not keen on crowds much either. So meh, win-win.

I don't believe giving my daughters a pile of up-to-the-minute-toy-or-object-that-every-other-little-girl-has-so-you-must-have-it-too will prove to them how much I love them. Or make their ~~life~~ Christmas better. I hope as they grow older, they hold fond memories of family moments together rather than what presents they received.

So anyway... Christmas trees!

Growing up my family had a fake Christmas tree. I took it upon myself to put it up and decorate it, sometimes with my younger brother, but truth be told, I didn't really want him to help because I am a bit of a perfectionist and he would never put the decorations up equally spaced.

Now with my own little family starting, this is how we've done it.

Christmas tree 2008

Our first family tree was this pitiful thing 'sourced' from the bush. Not much to look at but when money is tight and your first child isn't old enough to understand what the fuss is about, it did the job. I did get creative and printed out photos from the year, glued them onto card and hung them off the tree with ribbon. That made it special and was so fun to look at the photos and remember family moments and milestones.

Christmas tree 2009

No Christmas tree again this year. I have a toddler and am in my third trimester with #2 so I really wasn't feeling it too much. I ended up sewing and making a lot of gifts and just tried to stay sane.

Christmas tree 2010

THIS YEAR! Hooray for our first family (fake) Christmas tree. And new twinkle lights.

Yes, I put it up very early but toddler and I were excited. I can't wrap up the girls present because it is being built in the backyard. For family I am hoping to bake some tasty treats as gifts and sew a few other things, not to be mentioned on this blog in case SIL's are reading....

That's my Christmas tree story. What's yours?

moses supposes his toeses are roses

2010-11-19T17:56:00.000+11:00

So I finally got to wear this dress I bought months ago. I'm not sure why they insist on selling summer clothes when it was obviously freezing cold at the time.

But anyway, I bought it and of course couldn't wear it still because baby #2 was breastfeeding regularly. Now she's down to two - three feeds so BRING OUT THE DRESSES I say.

Why hello! I didn't see you standing there.

Hubby tells me to "do something" so I err... try to climb up the tree.

Wake up and smell the roses!

I find it really embarrassing to pose for blog photos when I ask hubby to take them for me. I do silly things and pull faces and they turn out horrible. I suppose they turn out horrible because he just presses the button and doesn't wait for me to be ready.

I would rather put the camera on self-timer and pose privately so that I can get creative without anyone watching.

Have a fantastic weekend lovely ones.

We have hubby's work Christmas function and I'm hoping to wear one of my vintage purchases from last weekend but the one I've picked is a tad short to wear on its own for my liking. If trousers do not work underneath (to wear the dress like a tunic top) then I'll be wearing this maxi dress again.

city escape

2010-11-17T22:15:00.001+11:00

Saturday I got to escape for the day with my friend into Melbourne city.
It's been over two years since I was last wandering the streets so I was pretty excited! Here's a little post with some of the things I saw and places I visited.

I love Jigsaw. Very feminine pieces, but oh so pricey.
This dress was gorgeous, much better in person.

Quick Brown Fox has quirky, eclectic and vintage inspired pieces. I bought a pair of earrings... they're big. (read: HUGE!)

Walked past this window. HELLO! Had to take a photo and drool a bit. One of each please!

And this florist's window display was just awesome! Old green bottles hung with a wire and a single tulip. (yes that's me in the reflection.)

I walked past actor Chris Lilley from the mockumentary We Can Be Heroes. He was wearing a beanie and looked like that teenage boy, but had the same sullen look as Ja'mie.

For lunch we went to CA DE VIN which has beautiful iron gates at the entrance, nestled between the Melbourne GPO and Myer building. YUM. This link has some pics of inside.

Took a visit to the pricey fabric store Tessuti and loved the Liberty of London range but meh, can't afford $44.95 per metre.

And almost forgot to mention we checked out RetroStar Vintage clothing which is unbelievable. I tried on two dresses and took them both. You of course will see it first here... one day.

Here's a sneak peek of one to wet your whistle.

and now we "must" belt.

2010-11-15T22:23:00.000+11:00

So thanks everyone for visiting and commenting. I know I have been a bit sporadic lately. Meh. We all have those times. I have still tried to pop in and 'visit' most of you but might not have commented... I know, how lurker of me!

I was thinking how blogging could, in some way, be making us 'conform' to certain ways of dressing. Perhaps not in any extreme sense.

For example. Belts. It seems like we "must" belt at the waist now. Even if you didn't have a belt on, it seems to look weird. You know? I remember when I hardly ever bothered wearing belts. Now if I haven't belted, I sometimes feel like I'm not trendy enough.

Some days I do just leave the belts in the drawer but at least with this outfit, I knew the belt gave it a polished, finished look.

And of course, my new wedges had to join in.

What do you ladies think?
Are all these new trends making us conform / feel pressured to follow or it's just like everything in fashion - things come and go?

riding along...

2010-11-12T21:44:00.001+11:00

Wow, original title there, considering the photo is me and my bike. Which I don't ride too often. Actually, this is my "new" old bike. Passed on by a friend. I have an older bike that my parents gave to me as a present for Christmas when I was probably twelve. I kept it. I never ride it. It doesn't even work now.

Baby #2 is almost 9 months. Love her!

I'm one of those people who lacks motivation in certain areas. One of them is exercise. This week hubby literally had to force me out. I went for a walk around town for about an hour and came home with blisters because I wore my nice shoes. Last night I went for an hour long ride and avoided riding past the police station in case they picked me up for not wearing a helmet.

But I did feel refreshed afterwards. I rewarded myself by sitting on the couch eating ice cream and half a packet of Mint Slice biscuits. Mmmm.

The weather has been warm so we're outside alot. I'm getting Christmas organised because I know I'll dawdle and waste the days away. We bought our first family Christmas tree this week. And some twinkle lights too. I'm excited because toddler is excited.

Over the upcoming weeks til Christmas I am going to side track a bit and share how we celebrate Christmas in Australia. You know, in the heat. Summer. Sun. Blue skies. BBQ's and the great outdoors.

No white Christmas here peoples.

I hope you all have a great weekend.

I'm escaping for the day with a friend into the city. And it is forecast to rain, top of 19C... which I think will mean muggy and humid.

of days gone by and people past

2010-11-05T00:05:00.001+11:00

she should get her own blog (and camera)

2010-11-02T21:59:00.000+11:00

I refer to my toddler who now not only knows how to turn on my camera and view photos, but also pretends to put the self-timer on and stands the right distance away. Hmmm. She also fiddles with the settings and I of course don't know how to set it back. I'm sure she'll be taking my photos by the time she's three.

Saturday night I took my groove-saving-shoes, one of my favourite dresses (see it here in winter) and paired it with a belted blazer. And of course, being on my own with hubby away I frantically got dressed 30mins before the babysitter arrived, while still changing nappies, finding clean pj's and hoping to take some outfit photos. It was pouring with rain and the day before was 28C so it ended up being very muggy.

After a hard few days with the little ones, it ended up being such a relief to go out for dinner, talking to my SIL's, plotting ways we could win the Christmas hamper in the raffle (or take off with it discretely!) and racing up for dessert. (pavlova. yum).

The next two months is going to be so busy with birthdays, Christmas parties and warm weather socialising. HOORAY! I'm looking forward to summer considering last year I was in my third trimester.

Oh and hubby is finally back and I am SO GLAD.

the shoes that saved my groove

2010-11-01T09:33:00.001+11:00

I bought these shoes during the week, from Kmart of all places.

They were a tempting $19. I figured for that price I would expect them to be uncomfortable but I liked that they were patent, neutral and wedges so I grabbed them. I might not like to wear heels but I'm really liking wedges. (Same result, less pain.)

I've had a trying few days with hubby away on business, bubba #2 having immunisations and cutting her first tooth (YAY) and both gals having colds. No wonder Friday's post was a desperate cry for help!

But I picked myself up Saturday morning, dusted myself off and tried again. Knit top from my Alaskan friend. Scarf from a Californian friend. Thrifted skirt and new shoes!

Saturday night I went out for a fundraiser dinner (so great to escape the kids! pics soon) and wore the shoes again. And then I wore them for church on Sunday.

I think it is love.